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To forgive is deciding not to be conflicted in one's emotions by the supposed right to punish the offender. The matter is left in God's hands. Christians who are continually causing conflict have received God's forgiveness, but they are denying that grace to others. "For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15).
"Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good" (Romans 12:19, 21).
The blessing that comes to one who forgives the offense of another was costly. Christ purchased it on the cross.
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